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“Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.”

March 28, 2015

Saturday has always been the best day of the week for me. Torrents of rain falling, snow covering the ground (notice I said covering) or winds tossing tree branches back and forth have mattered little to me. They are merely dramatic backdrops. On Saturday’s I don’t have to go anywhere. I don’t even have to get dressed. I love Saturday’s.

Today is rainy. Yesterday was rainy. It will rain all day into the night. The snow is just about gone. That makes me happy and even hopeful.

On Easter Sunday, my sisters loved their pouffy dresses, their white ankle socks with ruffles and their patent leather shoes. I wore dresses as well until one Easter when I wanted a more casual look. I ended up with a suit and a pink blouse with a Peter Pan collar. I don’t remember my shoes, but they weren’t patent leather. Maybe I was channeling my future self who thought she’d be a lawyer. Every Easter, in the afternoon, we’d go to my grandparent’s house in the city. Everyone was there: my aunts and uncles and too many cousins to count. I remember a conversation I overheard just before going into the kitchen. My name was mentioned so I stopped to eavesdrop. My aunt wanted to know why I wasn’t in a dress and why I was totally poufless. My suit didn’t pass muster. My mother simply said it was what she wanted.

My guest has left. She is on her way to Pittsburg. We had a wonderful visit. We toured the cape, stopped at a few shops and had a wonderful shrimp dinner last night. I had to chuckle as she always introduced herself as Francisca and then went on to say Miss Ryan was my Peace Corps teacher in Ghana 43 years ago. We laughed a lot. That’s what she thanked me of the most.

“Humor is by far the most significant activity of the human brain.”

May 28, 2011

The sky is cloudy white, and there was a mist earlier when I stood on the deck watching Gracie in the yard. Pine pollen has arrived, and my outside table top is green. I worked on the deck yesterday, and it is summer ready. All the plants were potted and the feeders filled, but the birds haven’t found the seeds yet. The red spawn of Satan did.

Humor changes over time. Being a kid meant being a bit gross and sometimes even a bit insensitive. Milk spurting from someone’s nose used to be one of the funniest things we’d ever seen. It sent us into spasms of laughter. Someone tripping and falling set us off as well. We’d try not to laugh but just couldn’t help ourselves. Catching a nose picker was a bonanza. We’d whisper and point and laugh. My father reprimanding us was sometimes far too funny. As he spoke, he’d be pointing and then tapping our chests with his finger, and we’d be holding back from laughing right out loud. My father often accused me of smirking. He was right. I was a great smirker. We were never mean or malicious. We just took advantage and laughed at anyone’s ill fortune. We were being kids.

In college we laughed all the time, sometimes at each other. That hadn’t changed from when we were little, but it had gotten a bit more sophisticated over time. If someone droned on, we’d all pretend to go asleep or turn our backs to the speaker who’d get indignant enough to make us laugh. Quick wits and snappy comebacks became our humor.

As adults, we still love the snappy comeback, and a good one rates a finger or two and an expletive from the victim. When we play games, we laugh all the time and make fun of each other, good-humored fun. Sometimes, in the middle of a sip, we laugh so much we spurt coke but never from our noses. We seem to have out-grown that.