Everybody Eats When They Come To My House: Cab Calloway
Posted August 16, 2026 by katryCategories: Video
“Food is our common ground, a universal experience.”
Posted August 16, 2026 by katryCategories: Musings
The afternoon is cloudy and sunny and cloudy again. It is a warm 77°. It is a quiet Sunday. I have no plans for today except to do a few things around the house. I did vacuum downstairs yesterday, but I just noticed the Henry hair is again joining forces in the hall. It is making a concerted effort to drive me crazy.
When I was a kid, I always went to mass on Sunday. Most times I went without my parents. My father ushered at the early mass while my mother stayed home with my sisters. I was never devout. I did the sit, reluctantly kneel down and stand up parts of the service. Enthusiasm wasn’t demanded, only attendance. Sometimes I smuggled in a book. I’d hide it the hymn book and read. I sat in the corners or at the back as far as I could get so no one would notice. I’d stand if the pews were filled , but I couldn’t read my book if I stood in the back. I could read the free pamphlets in the rack on the back wall. Sin and repentance were big topics. I was usually among the first, if not the first, to run up the stairs and out.
Because of my travels, I have a well developed palate. The first thing I learned was not to ask what I was eating. My first unknown meal was in Ghana. Dinner was served in a wide bowl. In it was a lump of something gelatinous surrounded by soup and a bony piece of meat. The dinner was just about the same every night, only the soup changed. Curiosity finally overcame my reluctance, and I asked what I was eating. The gelatinous lump was T-Zed, Tuo Zaafi, the main food in northern Ghana. It was made with water and corn and cassava flour then stirred while boiling. It was not meant to be chewed but just swallowed. I didn’t like it first. I thought it tasteless, but I liked the soup. The meat was goat. Okra soup was my favorite though groundnut stew wasn’t far behind. I didn’t even know okra existed before Ghana. Groundnut stew was peanut stew. It was made with thick groundnut butter, peanut butter to us. I used to add peanut oil to it so I’d have a spreadable peanut butter. I ate other strange foods, but I didn’t care what it was. The best chicken broth came from boiling the head and feet of a chicken. They looked disgusting cooking in the roiling water. I tried them, sort of chewed the toes and head. I didn’t like either.
I ate my first curry in Ghana and my first Indian food. I ate Lebanese food like hummus and tabbouleh with pita bread. I stopped asking what I was eating. I stopped caring. I went by taste, not origin. It was the same after Ghana, everywhere I traveled. I remember eating sketchy meat and more unknown lumps. Some of it tasted good, some didn’t, but I didn’t mind. The tasting is always a piece of the journey.
“The present time has one advantage over every other—it is our own.”
Posted August 15, 2026 by katryCategories: Musings
We have been gifted with another lovely morning. It is wear your sunglasses bright with a little breeze from the south keeping the air cool. It is in the low 70’s. The dogs just settled down to take their morning naps. I am getting my second cup of coffee and a couple of pieces of toast. All is well.
My days are pretty much the same, but I delight in each day. I wake up whenever. I get the paper and start reading while the coffee brews. The coffee is always delicious. The toast is perfectly browned and covered with fig jam. I usually finish all three of the word games and puzzles in the paper. I read the comics then start to write Coffee. It takes a while. My muse is not always available, and sometimes I can’t find the right music. This morning the cable went off for a while, but I didn’t even grouse. I just made more coffee. I could wait. I had all day. It came back on after a bit so here I am again.
I loved the sound of the roosters greeting the morning in Ghana. It was the perfect way to start another day in Africa. Goats and sheep wandered freely. At night they slept in the middle of the road. This time of year it rained every day. The fields were green. The millet was high. The market tables were filled with onions, tomatoes and tuber yams, piles of oranges, mangoes, bananas and pineapples. The aunties, the vegetable and fruit sellers, called out to me as I walked by them, but I had my favorite vegetable lady where I always stopped. I went to the egg market. The men sold eggs. They always held the eggs to the light so I could choose the fresh ones. I would smile and buy the eggs, but, in truth, I never saw the shadow of the fresh eggs, but they knew I would never return if the eggs were bad. I wandered up and down the lines of hens looking for a plumb one for dinner. I went to the meat market. I had become inured to the smells, to the dirty aprons of the sellers and to meat just sitting there. I checked out the piles of cloth looking for material for a new dress. I wandered all over. I was a familiar sight, the white lady who taught at the school.
I have a concert tonight.


