”Christmas works like glue. It keeps us all sticking together.”
Posted December 25, 2025 by katryCategories: Musings
Tags: Christmas, family, Holiday, holidays, life
Merry. Christmas, my Coffee friends. I thank you for dropping by to visit. Coffee turned 20 last year. My first musings, on blogger, in 2004 were about the Sox and their journey to the World Series. It was also the year I had retired. Such big events in one year!!
I have been ruffling through my memory drawers. Christmas is easy to find. I have so many stories and so many memories. I love finding the right gift. My sister calls it the Christmas curse, a gift from our mother. We find one gift and think it is not enough, and that goes on for a while. We always give each other many presents, some fun, something to wear, a book and some special gifts. This year my sister Sheila gave me a pair of slippers with the picture of Henry and Nala on the stairs. Their names are above. Moe gave me rolls of Reeds cinnamon and root beer life savers. My mouth is burning now from the cinnamon. When I was in Ghana I craved root beer, for some odd unknown reason. I never found any there, but my sister always find some here. My sister gave me a cloth ornament of Ben Franklin holding a kite. I love cloth ornaments. I smiled the whole time I unwrapped presents.
When I was a kid, there was the tiniest open bannister toward the bottom of the steps from upstairs. That’s where we got our first look at the tree surrounded by presents. Most were unwrapped. I can still see my new blue bike in front of all my presents. It was the best present I ever got. I swear we were stunned for a bit then we’d racedown to our presents. Each of us had a pile with only our presents, most unwrapped but a few wrapped written from mom and dad. We’d open those then check out all our gifts. The games were often in the front. I remember the year of Sorry. That game stayed with us forever. We played it on Saturday game nights for years.
We again checked out our gifts and played with them until we got ready for dinner time. Christmas dinner was the best dinner of the year for me. We were all finely dressed. One of my dinner outfits had been a gift that Christmas. We often had roast beef, a good piece of meat, mashed potatoes, peas, corn and sometimes a surprise vegetable like butternut squash or, my all time favorite, creamed onions. Desserts were many. I went for the sugar cookies, and for my special box of cookies labeled To: Leenie Love, Uncle Jack. They were his anise cookies, my all time favorites, and the cookies were his gift to me. They were perfect, the best I ever had, and they have a forever spot in my memories.
Christmas overflows with meaning. We carry traditions and add new ones. One of my family dishes, added by my mother, is the butternut squash dish. We have all made Whoopi Pies but it is my sister who stands out, and they have become her tradition added to the rest. I gave Christmas stockings to all three of my sister’s kids. One came from on-line, another a friend knit, and I needlepointed my niece’s. It became tradition. I have given stockings to 5 grandnephews and one grandniece. My sister reminded me I needed to get the stockings so I did. Family memories get wider and longer. They become traditions.
Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas: Judy Garland
Posted December 24, 2025 by katryCategories: Video
“It’s Christmas Eve, it’s the one night of the year when we all act a little nicer, we smile a little easier, we cheer a little more.”
Posted December 24, 2025 by katryCategories: Musings
The morning is cloudy. We have a wind alert with possible 45 mph gusts. All the tree trunks are swaying. The smaller branches are being blown in clusters. I wouldn’t be surprised to lose another pine tree. They have such shallow roots. It is 37°, but the wind makes the air feel chillier, down into the 20’s. Both rain and snow are predicted, but not any snow accumulation, dashing the hope for a white Christmas. When they first went out, the dogs romped. Nala ran round and round in the backyard. She came inside panting. Henry did a short run. Both are now sleeping on the couch.
Any kid will tell you the longest day of the year is not the summer solstice. It is Christmas Eve. Night never seems to come. I remember trying to convince my mother I was exhausted and needed to go to bed around five or six. It didn’t happen. We sometimes watched A Christmas Carol, the one with Alastair Sims, my all time favorite. Even now I watch it every year. When I finally went to bed, I decided I would stay awake to catch Santa. That never happened. I was too tired and Santa was too stealthy.
We had sort of an attic, actually more of a space with wood planks and insulation between them. The upstairs hall was small. Around it were three bedrooms and the bathroom. In the ceiling was a trap door leading to the pseudo attic. A ladder was there once the door was opened. One Christmas, activity in the hall woke me up. My father was on the ladder handing presents to my mother. I heard sort of a tinkling sound. It was one of those push toys which spun and played music. I knew it was for my youngest sister. I couldn’t go back to sleep. After my parents had gone downstairs, I sneaked down the stairs to watch them put out the presents. I only watched for a little while then went back to sleep.
Yesterday I shopped for dinner. I had been given money and gift cards so I filled my carriage. I bought snacks for tonight and food for my Christmas dinner. I splurged and bought a beautiful piece of beef, squash, carrots and mashed sweet potatoes. I bought decorated cupcakes for dessert. I bought a chocolate Santa. I bought treats for Nala, Henry and Jack. We are all going to celebrate.
I thank you all for always dropping by, and I wish you the merriest of Christmases.
It Came Upon a Midnight Clear: Sixpence None the Richer
Posted December 23, 2025 by katryCategories: Video


