It’s overcast and chilly. The sun keeps trying to break through, but the clouds still hold sway. I went out for breakfast, as I do every Sunday, and I met my friend at our usual spot. It was almost empty. I figure a cloudy Sunday is seldom an invitation to be out and about early. It’s a take your time, drink lots of coffee and read the papers sort of day.
We wore sneakers when I was a kid, and every summer we’d get a new pair. Most times they were Keds. Red was my favorite color. I tied my own sneakers, but the bows were seldom tight enough. The laces would often come undone. My mother would then step in and help. I’d lift my foot to her and she’d rest it on her upper leg while she tied the laces in a double knot. Those knots were so secure they never untied even when I tried. At night, I’d pull and pull on the laces but couldn’t find the key to unlocking those knots. I’d end up prying off the sneakers, still tied. The next day I’d wiggle my foot into my tied sneaker and push until the toes reached the end. Sometimes, in the process, I’d flatten the back of the sneaker and have to stick my finger in like a shoehorn. It was never easy.
When I got older, only tennis sneakers would do, white and narrow at the toes. No longer was tying the bow a problem for me. The biggest challenge was keeping the sneakers white. Any mark was a catastrophe. Sometimes the sneakers could go in the washing machine. My mother would them hang by their laces on the line to dry. In between washes, white shoe polish hid the spots, but it had disadvantages. The white rubbed off on socks and clothes and the insides of the sneakers stayed damp for a while. It was never easy being a fashion icon.
I still call them sneakers and have a couple of pairs. One pair came with a fancy name. They weren’t sneakers. They were leather fitness shoes. The other pair is hot pink and made by Converse. They are the real deal.


