“Similar things are drawn to each other.”
Posted August 28, 2023 by katryCategories: Musings
Tags: Africa, cloudy, groundnut oil, Peace Corps Ghana, similarity
If I had slept any later this morning, I would have missed the sun. It disappeared: all traces are gone for the meanwhile, only clouds remain, but this remarkable disappearance calls for patience. The sun will be back. It is 69° now and won’t get any higher than 73°.
When I was a kid, by the time the end of August rolled around, I was just about ready for school. What had been fun and exciting in June and July had gotten boring. In September, the mostly unplanned days of summer disappeared and were replaced by a uniformity. From Monday to Friday I was up at the same time, wore the same clothes, my uniform, and spent the day in school. Only my lunches were different from day to day. Whenever I could, I played outside after school, but soon enough, the afternoons started to get darker earlier. Forced inside, I’d finish my homework and then watch some TV. I remember Superman and The Mickey Mouse Club. I remember eating dinner while sitting at the table with my back to the window. I remember having to go to bed early. “School tomorrow,” my mother always said and that was enough.
When I lived in Ghana, my weekdays had a similarity. I ate the same breakfast every morning: two eggs, 2 pieces of toast and coffee. The eggs were cooked in groundnut (peanut) oil giving them a distinctive taste, one which elevated the eggs to a different plane. The coffee was instant with evaporated milk, but after a while, that tasted just fine. I’d walk across the school compound to the classroom block and teach. Any break in the morning classes meant a walk home and some more coffee. After my day of teaching, it was lunch time, always a bowl of cut fruit, whatever was in season. The afternoons were mine unless it was volleyball or track season. I coached both. If it was a simple afternoon of no activities, I’d sometimes take a nap or I’d go into town and shop. I’d usually stop at the Super Service Inn to say hi and to watch the men play Oware, the Ashanti version of mancala, outside under the trees. It was fun to watch. The audience, all men, made comments about the moves or offered advice. I, an invited guest, just watched. From there I’d head home, prepare lessons and then eat dinner: either chicken or beef in a sauce, usually a tomato sauce, and yam. During the rest of the evening, students sometimes dropped by to visit or I’d read and listen to music. The last activity of the day before bed was my shower, always cold water.
I was never bored in Ghana. I was in Africa. Everything was different even in its similarity.
“Time kept passing without my consent.”
Posted August 27, 2023 by katryCategories: Musings
Today has yet to make up its mind. When I woke up, it was sunny. Now it is cloudy. Earlier it was still. Now it is breezy. The only constant has been the temperature, 71°. I have no plans. I have no need to leave the house. I don’t even have to get dressed.
I heat coffee in the microwave. When the buzz goes off, I get the coffee. The cup’s handle is always facing away from the door. It is an odd phenomenon.
Henry barks if someone or something passes my house. He barks until they are out of sight. The amount of barking sometimes drives me crazy, but I hate to have him stop. My father always told me to let the dog bark. He is keeping me safe. When I was in the hospital, friends came to tend to the dogs and cat. Henry did not bark. I wasn’t home. I didn’t need protection.
Toast always falls on the buttered side. I learned why. As toast falls off the table, the toast rotates, but the spin rate is too slow to bring the buttered side up. I think I prefer it to be a mystery.
Cats throw up. Even though Jack gets hair ball treatment, he still throws up hair balls. He also sometimes tosses his dinner. Jack is an ace that leaving his rejections right where I walk in his room. At night, I have to get to the table to turn on the night. That is usually too late. I walk right in what Jack left. Sometimes I am barefoot. I won’t get into specifics. It has to do with my toes and is gross.
I learned to tie my shoes when I was five. My mother taught me. Because, at first, my bows were loose, I had to stop often to tie my shoes, but I got better at bows and didn’t have to stop. Kids today learn later. They have velcro. Kids today tell time digitally. Though they learn what the numbers mean, all the time telling is done for them. I was in the second grade when I learned to tell time, analog time. I still have only analog watches. Cursive writing is not taught anymore. Why bother? People don’t write letters. They e-mail letters. The only cursive anyone needs to know is how to write your name. I get that times change and the old ways disappear, replaced by newer, more efficient ways to do things, but though I can do the new ways, I still hang on to the old. After all, by the numbers, I am old. It is quarter past one.




