”Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but sometimes, playing a poor hand well.”

Posted July 29, 2024 by katry
Categories: Musings

The rain started slowly late yesterday afternoon, got a bit heavier and then stayed around most of the night. The morning is chilly at 67°, still overcast, breezy and damp. The sun is supposed to warm the day to the mid-70’s but seems reluctant to appear. The clouds are hanging on, but the rain is gone.

Henry still has some dog door issues. Sometimes he looks through the flap and whacks it but doesn’t come inside. I try to ignore him but then I feel bad and let him in. Other times he gives up and comes inside. What I love is he’ll be in the hall tapping his nails on the floor until I say, “Go, Henry,” then he runs up the hall and goes outside. He has no trouble going out.

When I was a kid, summer days were the best days of the year. I was gone from just after breakfast until close to supper. The streetlights came on later because of the light hanging around longer so I could even go out playing after dinner. I remember hide and seek. We hid in the shadows.

We were a game family. Every Christmas we got a new game, and we played it around the kitchen table. My father taught us whist, and we played in teams, girls against boys. My mother and I usually won. Sorry was the best game. It was so much fun and so very aggravating. Knocking someone back to start was followed by hooting and cheering. Even when I was an adult, we sat around the kitchen table playing cards. We played endless games of hi-low Jack. My father was both the worst winner and the worst loser. When he lost, we taunted him. Once his back gave out and he fell off the bench, but he still bid from the floor. My father loved his card games.

The birds have found the feeders. They were constantly in and out this morning. The chickadees waited in line. They all seemed to like the same feeder. The titmouse chose the feeder the spawn likes. Today it was the female cardinal. Both she and the male like the new feeder. They can sit in it and munch. I had seen the shells of the sunflower seeds in that feeder and wondered how they got there. Now I know.

Chapel of Love: The Dixie Cups

Posted July 28, 2024 by katry
Categories: Video

Eleanor Rigby: The Beatles

Posted July 28, 2024 by katry
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Church of the Poison Mind: Culture Club

Posted July 28, 2024 by katry
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Church in the Wildwood: Dolly Parton

Posted July 28, 2024 by katry
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Posted July 28, 2024 by katry
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”It was Sunday — not a day, but rather a gap between two other days.”

Posted July 28, 2024 by katry
Categories: Musings

The sun is shining. It is a pretty morning which belies the forecast of rain this afternoon into tomorrow. I’m fine with the rain. It is about time.

I saw it, the spawn. Earlier it was hanging upside down at one of the feeders. I wished I had a sling shot and an accurate eye. It was yesterday when I knew for certain that a spawn or many spawns were at the feeders. When I went out in the afternoon, I saw one of the clay pots had fallen to the deck and was broken. I saved the flower and repotted it. I’m going out on the deck later which will keep the spawn at bay.

Sunday has always been my least favorite day. It is quiet by design. When I was a kid, it meant mass and a family dinner, the best part of the day. It meant hanging around the house, no exploring, no biking, no wandering. There were only two exceptions to those usual Sundays. We’d go to East Boston to visit my grandparents, and we’d go to the beach, always after mass. Sunday dinner became beach food like sandwiches, chips, pepper and egg, bug juice and cookies, usually Oreos. We’d spend the day there. I can still remember leaving the beach to go home. We had to stick our feet in a bucket to get the sand off then jump into the car with clean feet. My father wasn’t big on sand in the car.

The very first presidential election when I was old enough to vote was in 1968. I voted for Hubert Humphrey. I couldn’t bring myself to vote for Nixon. Much later, during the Watergate hearing, I was in Washington. Hubert Humphrey walked by, and he kindly stopped and signed the book I was reading, the Foundation Trilogy by Isaac Asimov. I still have that book.

My dance card for the week is filled with uke: two concerts, practice and a lesson. That’s it.

Another Saturday Night: Cat Stevens

Posted July 27, 2024 by katry
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Saturday Night’s Alright for Fighting: Elton John

Posted July 27, 2024 by katry
Categories: Video

Lonely on a Saturday Night: Hootie and the Blowfish

Posted July 27, 2024 by katry
Categories: Video