Archive for February 2025

“Make the world a better place. Leave the country.”

February 27, 2025

The morning is damp and chilly. It must have rained during the night. The clouds are dark. More rain is coming. It is in the 40’s. When I went out to watch the dogs, I wasn’t so cold this time.

This morning I sat on the couch to drink my coffee. The paper was on the table in front of me. I wasn’t ready to read it. I just sat there remembering. This is Peace Corps week. Peace Corps day is Saturday which commemorates the day President Kennedy established the Peace Corps, March 1, 1961. My Peace Corps years were a life time ago, but all of it, from training to close of service, sits bright in my memory drawers. I can close my eyes and see it all. 

Training was long. It was difficult. It was wonderful. On my very first morning in Ghana, in Winneba, I stood on the balcony outside my room seeing the rusted metal roofs of the compounds where people lived. I saw palm trees, my very first palm trees. I could smell the aroma of the lush greenery. I was amazed. I was actually in Africa.

Training was in variety of places. We had more language and student teaching. I remember in Koforidua there were days when I hated training, my why am I here days. Other days I couldn’t imagine being somewhere else.  

I learned Hausa. My name is Lahadi, one born on Sunday. I used my Hausa all the time and remembered enough forty years later to greet people in Bolgatanga, my Ghanaian home.

The last week of training was at Legon, at the University of Ghana. We were all there, all of us who had completed training. We stayed in dorm rooms. We had real coffee every morning. We took language tests, saw kente weavers and watched traditional dancing. Our last day of training was our swearing in ceremony. It was just us in a large room with the ambassador who gave us our oath. We were official, no longer trainees. We were Peace Corps volunteers. 

I wrote and posted this long ago on Coffee. It is time to post it again. “It didn’t take long after training to realize the best part of Peace Corps isn’t Peace Corps. It is just living every day because that’s what Peace Corps comes down to, just living your best life in a place you couldn’t imagine. It is living on your own in a village or at a school. It is teaching every day. It is shopping in the market every three days. It is taking joy in speaking the language you learned in training. It is wearing Ghanaian cloth dresses and relegating the clothes you brought with you to the moldy suitcases. It is loving people and a country with all of your heart from breakfast to bed and forever after. Peace Corps doesn’t tell you that part, the loving part, but I expect they know it will be there.”


Music for Today

February 25, 2025

Roberta Flack passed away yesterday. There are so many of her songs I could post, but these four came right to mind.

The First Time Ever I saw Your Face: Roberta Flack

February 25, 2025

Feel Like Making Love: Roberta Flack

February 25, 2025

The Closer I Get to You: Roberta Flack

February 25, 2025

Killing Me Softly With His Song: Roberta Flack

February 25, 2025

February 25, 2025

”Not all treasure is silver and gold, mate”

February 25, 2025

When the temperature reaches the 40’s, I celebrate the coming of spring. Those shoots in the front garden are the harbingers. Soon enough spring flowers will return color to the garden. I am so tired of browns and grays I can barely wait for the yellow of the dafs, the deep purple of the hyacinths and the earliest of all, the crocus.

When I was a kid, I had a spring jacket I loved. It was blue and it zippered. It had no lining, no added warmth. I’d beg my mother to let me wear it on a warmish winter’s day. She said no every time I asked, but she did let me remove one layer, the sweater under my winter coat. I conceded. When I was an adult, I bought a spring jacket. It was gray with a zipper and no lining. I wore it on the first warm day, but I admit I was chilly. As usual, my mother had been right.

Every day this month, we’ve gained 3 minutes of sun. The streetlights come on later. When I was a kid, that meant we could stay outside longer in the afternoons after school. That meant summer was getting closer. 

I found a small black book called My Sunday Missal behind some books on the shelves in my bedroom. The front cover is loose and faded. Only the letters sal can be seen. On the first page at the top, my name is written in green ink, in cursive. Below that is the phone number Sto6-3021. I don’t remember when that was our phone number. The book has prayers and a mass calendar through 1949. One of the neat pages has a drawing of the altar with every part labeled. One of the new ones for me was the exposition throne at the top of the altar. Mass prayers are in both English and Latin. I found the copyright 1940. I also found bookmarks, missal marks. One is cut from a larger piece of paper. It has just the face of Christ on the cross. He has blue eyes, the reddest of lips and a small beard on his chin, artistic license I figure. The next one is a picture of Mary on the front and a prayer, The Memorare, on the back. I don’t recognize it. The last one is a card with a Prayer of St. Ignatius on the front and an address on the back for the Society of Jesus with a phone number. The number is Ken 6-3611.

This book is a piece of my past I didn’t remember. It is well worn. I found a spot for it in the living room among my treasures. 

Homburg: Procol Harum

February 24, 2025

Venus in Blue Jeans: Jimmy Clanton

February 24, 2025