“Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder.”
The morning is fall chilly at 55°. The day is lovely. The sky is the deepest blue with no clouds, and the sun is squint your eyes bright. The deck is covered in fallen yellow leaves. Some are still bright while others are brown with curling edges. The birds are back. Two feeders are empty. I’ll fill them in a bit.
When I was a kid, I did pretty much the same thing every day. I ate breakfast, got dressed, walked to school, learned, ate lunch, had recess, learned some more then walked home, but I never thought my life was routine. It was often filled with the unexpected amid the usual. I’d find the perfect yellow or red leaf and press it in my school book to save it. At home, I’d iron it between sheets of wax paper. I’d make an art piece. On my walk, I’d notice the Halloween decorations in the windows of the houses I passed. I’d see witches on brooms, ghosts and pumpkins. I’d learn something new every day. I’d sometimes find a surprise in my lunch, a Hostess cupcake. I’d take off the frosting. It usually came off in a single piece. I’d eat around the cream then I’d eat the cream followed by the frosting. It was my best cupcake technique practiced and honed over time. After school we’d play outside, go back in, watch TV, eat dinner, watch TV again then go to bed where I’d read a little before turning out the light. Life was seldom boring. It was one of the joys of being a kid.
In Ghana, I knew my life was never routine despite the sameness of each weekday. I ate eggs and toast for breakfast and fruit for lunch every day. Suppers didn’t vary much either. I remember walking each morning across the school compound from my house to the classroom block. I never took even that short walk for granted. I was always aware of how unique my life was. All that childhood wonder had returned.
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October 25, 2024 at 6:52 pm
Hi Kat,
Today was warm with clear skies again. We reached only 89° today.
Both my daughter and I enjoy regular schedules. Doing the same things every day is comforting. I get up at seven, shave shower, dress, drink one cup of coffee, and go to work. If I’m working at home, then I go to my office and crank up the work laptop. If I go to the office, I crank up the laptop at my desk. Then, get the second cup of coffee. If at home, I make the second cup.
Last evening I received bad news that a colleague at work had passed from complications of colon cancer. He was maybe 55 and had been on chemotherapy for the past six years. As my better half always says, everyone has an expiration date.
Besides the broken hot water pipe, our movie room projector blew its bulb a couple of weeks ago. The repair guy had to order a bulb and this afternoon he installed it. My next week’s project is to get the restoration company out so they can give me an estimate to replace flooring and sheet-rock in my utility room, bathroom and office.
A friend told me that he had to have leaks in his foundation done five times in the 30 years he’s lived in his house. Whoopee. 🙂
October 26, 2024 at 12:09 am
Hi Bob,
I would not get used to temperatures in the 80’s this time of year. I want crisp mornings for the fall. I’d like a little snow for Christmas. Ghana was hot, but I knew it was an uncommon adventure for me.
When I worked, I needed a schedule: up at 5:15, at work by 6:30 and home at 4. Even my weekends had a bit of a schedule so I could get everything done. Now, I love my freedom, my free time.
I lost two of my good friends, one last year at Thanksgiving, the other in April. They were a year older than I. That reminded me of the expiration date as your wife says. It felt so close when they passed.
I hate when things go wrong in the house. It is never inexpensive.