“I am not the same, having seen the moon shine on the other side of the world.”

Around two this morning, I was sitting with Jack the cat when the lights went out. They came back on then flickered and went out again then on again before going out again. I could hear Henry growling in the hall. He doesn’t do well with anomalies. The lights then came on and stayed on. Poor Henry was shaking. I petted and reassured him. He stopped shaking.

The morning is dark, and the air feels damp. Rain is predicted, but I won’t hold my breath as it was predicted the other day, the dry day. (It is much later than when I started. It is raining).

I had a dentist appointment this morning to have my teeth cleaned. It didn’t go well. I’ll leave it with that.

I’m going to continue the story of my Peace Corps training. After two weeks, we all broke into smaller groups for our live-ins around the country. We would be living for three weeks with families who spoke the languages we were learning. My group of eight had the furthest to travel. We made our way to Tamale then to Bolga then to Bawku. We traveled all day and into the night and arrived too late to meet our families. The next day I met Imaru Sanda, my Ghanaian father, and his daughter, my hostess. The house had a generator, and the family owned another sort of house close by with a courtyard where movies were shown. I remember a spaghetti western where reel 3 was shown before reel 2. My father was a Muslim and had four wives. They lived a short walk away in a compound with their young children. They cooked all my meals and brought them to the house. I loved visiting that compound. The babies liked me, but the toddlers cried, scared by my white skin. The walk to visit the women was on a dirt walkway between compounds. I always passed small boys sitting on stools under a tree with a teacher in front of them. They were intoning the Koran and memorizing it. I loved that walk.

My stay in Bawku was amazing and filled with new people, new foods, a growing sense of comfort and a recognition that I was strong, able to adapt and was falling in love with a wonderful place I could never have imagined. There is far more to my live-in story, but I’ll stop here and leave you hungering for more.

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5 Comments on ““I am not the same, having seen the moon shine on the other side of the world.””

  1. Bob's avatar Bob Says:

    Hi Kat,

    Today there are a few clouds, very few, and the high temperature should reach 100°. This week is predicted to be the hottest of the summer.

    I love your stories about your experiences in the Peace Corps. I’m surprised that your Peace Corps. father could afford four wives. I realize that Muslim men can have multiple wives if they can afford them. Also, they can divorce them by repeating the words, “I divorce you”, three times. I can’t imagine having more than one spouse. The nagging from one wife is enough for me. 🙂 It’s difficult enough keeping one wife satisfied regardless how much money I have. 🙂

    Thanks for reminding me that I’m behind schedule for going to the dentist. Every time I go, I’m convinced that he’s buying a new boat. I joke that my ancestors bequeathed me lousy teeth. Over my lifetime I have paid for several dentist’s boats, or I have paid for their kids college educations.

    • katry's avatar katry Says:

      Hi Bob,
      It has been raining on and off since this afternoon. Rain is also predicted for tomorrow, but I’m just fine with the rain. We need it.

      Imoru Sanda was considered a rich man, the more wives the wealthier. The oldest wife loved new wives as they did the bulk of chores. They didn’t live in the same house, and Ghanaian women would not nag their husbands.

      I used to say the very same thing to my dentist, that I was buying him a new boat and trips abroad. He just retired. He had been my dentist since 1972 so I’ll miss him.

  2. katry's avatar katry Says:

    That would be village!


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