The dead soldier’s silence sings our national anthem.”
For special days, I have traditional postings. This is one of them.
Memorial Day is a day for reflection and a day to give thanks. It is a day for honoring the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military, those who gave, as President Lincoln once said, their “last full measure of devotion.” This is my annual tribute.
Memorial Day, originally called Decoration Day, is a day of remembrance for those who have died in our nation’s service. It originated during the American Civi War when citizens placed flowers on the graves of those who had been killed in battle. There are many stories as to its actual beginnings, with over two dozen cities and towns laying claim to being the birthplace of Memorial Day. There is also evidence that organized women’s groups in the South were decorating graves before the end of the Civil War: a hymn published in 1867, “Kneel Where Our Loves are Sleeping” by Nella L. Sweet carried the dedication “To The Ladies of the South who are Decorating the Graves of the Confederate Dead.” While Waterloo N.Y. was officially declared the birthplace of Memorial Day by President Lyndon Johnson in May 1966, it’s difficult to prove conclusively the origins of the day. It is more likely that it had many separate beginnings; each of those towns and every planned or spontaneous gathering of people to honor the war dead in the 1860′s tapped into the general human need to honor our dead, each contributed honorably to the growing movement that culminated in General Logan, Commander in Chief of the Grand Army of the Republic, giving his official proclamation in 1868 designating May 30 as a memorial day “for the purpose of strewing with flowers or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village, and hamlet churchyard in the land.”. It is not important who was the very first, what is important is that Memorial Day was established. Memorial Day is not about division. It is about reconciliation; it is about coming together to honor those who gave their all.
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May 27, 2024 at 4:59 pm
Hi Kat,
Memorial Day is one of those three day weekends that should be more than barbecue, auto racing, and baseball. Unfortunately, since 1975 when the Vietnam conflict ended, we have been involved in wars both in Iraq and Afghanistan for over 20 years. Hopefully, we don’t get drawn into the latest Middle East crisis or sending troops to Ukraine.
I find it interesting that in WWI we called a soldier who couldn’t continue to fight, “Shell shocked”. During WWII the same disability was called, “Battle fatigue”. In the Vietnam conflict it was named, “PTSD, Post traumatic stress disorder)”. How will we clean up our language to make the next war sound less devastating to those who fought?
May 27, 2024 at 11:11 pm
Hi Bob,
I heard someone say Happy Memorial Day today. I figured she did not know the meaning of the day. People don’t realize it is to honor those who have died in service for their country.
I would like to believe that Vietnam and Afghanistan have taught us not to get involved in wars having nothing to do with us or our interests.
I think we need to know devastation so it may deter us from another war.