“Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive.”
Gracie and I are outside. The air is cooler and far breezier than it has been. The sun comes and goes. Rain is a possibility for later, but that has been the forecast on and off for the last week, and we haven’t yet had rain.
There is a cricket which has taken up residence in my house. I swear it follows me from room to room like the eyes of a creepy picture. My hope is either it finds the way out or has a short life span.
It is noisier than usual out here. I hear dogs barking from all different directions. From the grouchy neighbor’s house I hear voices and things being moved around on the deck. The birds are singing and the fountain is gurgling or whatever it is that fountains do. Lots of birds are enjoying the feeders which I filled yesterday.
Since the class reunion last Saturday I’ve done some thinking about people and time. I hadn’t seen most of those people in over fifty years yet we still had a bond of shared experiences and memories. We were fourteen, still young, when we met. We hadn’t yet figured ourselves out let alone other people. We gravitated to classmates who had similar interests and senses of humor and, for me, a willingness to try new things and an appreciation for the ironic though I didn’t know that’s what it was until I was older. My friends and I were, in a small way, rebels. I remember reading books from the Index Librorum Prohibitorum, forbidden books for those of you who weren’t lucky enough to have four years of Latin. I didn’t like the book. It was the forbidden part which drew me. Mad Magazine was a favorite of ours, and we bought it every month. We roamed Harvard Square. We rang doorbells for SNCC.
You can say my friends and I grew up together as parts of me were born during those days. Without those funny, irreverent friends I believe my life might have been very different. I would have missed so much!
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August 21, 2015 at 5:06 pm
Very nice day over here, sunny and in the lower 70’s. No rain is foreseen in the nearest future so I watered quite a lot in my garden this evening. It is so dry here now that plants are dying.
What kind of people had we been if we hadn’t had the friends we had? Would we still have become those who we are today? I think that we more or less would be. Would I have bought that sailing boat if I hadn’t had friends who loved to be out on the ocean all summer? I know that my financial situation at that time would have been much better if I hadn’t bought that boat 🙂 🙂
Have a great day!
Christer.
August 21, 2015 at 6:11 pm
Christer,
It got really humid so I had to turn on the AC. North of us got rain and will get rain tomorrow. I don’t know what we did to Mother Nature.
I think my friends made me more fearless, more willing to take risks because they were with me. We did silly things, not dangerous, but they were still a bit on or over the line. Life was interesting.
Have a great evening!